Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Have you ever known someone with a mental illness?
Have you ever known someone with a mental illness is the question I have chosen to respond to this week. I do have people in my life that have been diagnosed with manic depression and Bipolar syndrome. I have actually seen what they go through when they are experiencing mania and hypomania. One individual has accepted her illness wholeheartly and goes to therapy consistently and adheres to her medicine regime religiously and leads a very productive life as a result. The other individual who is much younger does not accept her illness and lives in denial. She doesn't want the label of having a "mental illness". She goes through stages where she is extremely happy and outgoing and then she crashes and sleeps for days and is very lethargic and has no interest in anything. She will, at times, take her meds for a few days and then decides to stop taking them and the cycle continues. She refuses to seek therapy on a regular basis because she says she doesn't want people to think she is "crazy" and she can handle it on her own. Its very hard to watch her go through this and everyone in her circle has try'd to be supportive and help her in her battles with this but until she accepts this fact and faces it I am afraid there is not much we can do for her. I can only hope that she will at some point accept the help that has been offered and embrace it so that she can live the life that is possible with therapy and the proper medication.
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Denita,
That must be extremely frustrating to watch a friend or loved one struggle with something that is more than likely controllable. You are right, until she accepts what has been dealt to her, no one will be able to help her. I do hope she does realize what precious time in her life she is wasting by not getting the proper treatment. Do the two know each other? Can the one friend that has her's under control offer support and advice to the other?
Good luck to them both!
Angela
Hi,
It must be very frustrating for you to watch someone you know or a loved one suffer so much and you really can not help them. Unfortunately, until she accepts and comes to agreement with her condition, there is not really much that you can do. However continue to put her in your prayers, and hopefully, all things would work together for good.
Take care and good luck
In many cases it is not the disease that is incurable, but it is the person. We cannot cure stubbornness and pride. They are spiritual diseases that only with help of a good church can be overcome.
Often we are not aware of how simple the solutions of our problems can be. We struggle through life and suffer a condition that can be easily overcome, but we are too prideful to see the solution.
Denita, I'm glad your one friend seeks treatment, and her prognosis is probably very good because of it. It is a shame that your other, younger, friend will not do the same. As Rocco said, treatment of the disease is only one part of the problem. The other part is getting the person to accept the diagnosis. I do hope your friend chooses to get help soon, as the risk for suicide is increased for bipolars, and it is a degenerative disease (NIMH, 2008).
National Institute Mental Health. (2008). Bipolar disorder. Retrieved on November 16, 2008 from
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/bipolar-disorder/complete-publication.shtml#pub3
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